10 “Be”-haviors to Gain Respect

Respect

As a manager, respect is essential to building a successful, productive team.

While many managers struggle to gain respect from employees, respect can

actually be earned and maintained with simple behaviors that let people know

you can be trusted to lead effectively. Adopt the following behaviors and watch

employee respect for you grow:

 

1. Be encouraging. Offer sincere praise for a job well done. Tell your

employees that you appreciate their efforts while they are working, and

offer immediate recognition upon successful completion of a task, while

the work is still fresh in the mind of the employee.

2. Be trusting. People feel devalued by managers who can’t let go. It is

important, when delegating responsibilities, to trust employees to

accomplish tasks without telling them how to complete their work. Trust

and empower employees to explore ways to achieve success in a manner

that will lead to the development of their own skills.

3. Be honest. Don’t be afraid to admit that you don’t know the answer! No

one respects an arrogant fool, but respect is gained through honesty and

understanding. Similarly, give truthful feedback to employees rather than a

simple, “good job,” especially if the job done did not meet company goals.

4. Be available. In addition to leaving your door open, schedule time to chat

with employees. Letting coworkers know that your time is not too

important for them will cause them to value and respect you.

5. Be positive. No one is drawn to negativity. Work to see the positive in

your employees and express optimism regarding the progress of your

team.

6. Be helpful. Never be too busy to make yourself useful to others. Being

willing to stop and offer advice to those who ask for it, or to assist in areas

that may even be “below” your status are sure ways to encourage

appreciation and respect among employees – they will see that you

actually care.

7. Be relatable. Don’t be afraid to laugh and smile. Managers who are too

serious can seem sterile or even hostile, causing mistrust. Don’t be afraid

to occasionally have some appropriate fun with your employees.

8. Be open. Ask for the opinions of your employees, then actively listen and

respond to their views. People respect those who actually consider their

ideas and show interest.

9. Be humble. As Jim Collins observed in his book, Great by Choice,

companies that have incredible track records of success consistently

boast leaders who take personal blame for failures and setbacks, but give

others credit for progress and success.

10. Be reliable. Make sure that what you say and what you do match up.

Whereas consistency quickly earns trust, inconsistency leads to doubt and

a lack of respect. Following up and following through will quickly establish

credibility among employees.

 

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