10 “Don’ts” that De-Motivate Employees

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Successful organizations are filled with motivated employees from the top down. Motivating employees is one of the key tasks of an effective manager, but all too often, managers err in their efforts to motivate employees.

Following are 10 practices to avoid in order to maintain a productive, motivated workforce:

Don’t just reward results – Often times, the employee who closes the sale, secures the client, or meets the company goal has had a long line of behind-the-scenes coworkers who carved the way toward success. At the same time, some employees are assigned more difficult clients and tasks than others. Be sure to regularly offer praise and rewards for efforts across the company and along the path to success so that employees continue to want to be productive.

Don’t make praise the only reward – While praise and expressions of appreciation are excellent motivators, they only go so far. When employees receive a tangible reward, they and their coworkers notice and get excited. Furthermore, rewards can and should come in all shapes and sizes. Taking an employee out for lunch, offering them a day off, or giving them a gift card are fun, affordable ways to honor employees. Rewards should remain interesting and fitting to the efforts made.

Don’t offer external-only rewards – While money talks, studies show that employees are much more highly motivated by a sense of self-worth than they are by money. In fact, employees who are paid too highly for their work typically have lower performance outputs than people in similar positions at a lesser salary range.

Don’t be stingy – On the other hand, bitterness and frustration result when employees are not appropriately compensated for their efforts. Ensure that employees are truly making what they are worth to ensure continued motivation and productivity.

Don’t delay feedback – Multiple studies on feedback prove that immediate feedback increases motivation because people automatically understand the cause and effect relationship between actions and results. Employees who receive consistent and constructive feedback are more goal-oriented and productive.

Don’t focus on mistakes – If an employee makes more mistakes than successes, it is likely that employee is not a good fit for an organization. But focusing on small errors and mistakes rather than overall successes will lead to a lack of confidence, a lack of motivation, and ultimately a lack of productivity.

Don’t be predictable – Employees are motivated by opportunities to be creative, learn and grow. A sense of accomplishment and the ability to take a new or fresh perspective keeps work interesting for employees, and interesting motivates people to work.

Don’t forget to be human – One of the greatest motivating factors for people is knowing that they are cared for. Employees are highly inspired to work for people who care about those things that matter beyond the work day. Know the names of employees’ significant others, and ask about them. If an employee isn’t performing to the standards expected, don’t ridicule without stopping to ask what help they might need, or what might be affecting performance. 

Don’t impose too many structures and rules – This especially applies when it comes to how a task is completed. Telling people how to complete their job disables the ability to operate in the freedom and comfort of their own aptitudes and styles. When you take a way freedom, you demotivate.

Don’t create an atmosphere of fear – Lastly, companies who instill fear among employees often have significant turnover rates. People want to experience happiness and joy as they contribute to a company, and fear has the opposite effect on people, thus creating less drive to complete tasks.

Tips for Offering Effective Feedback

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Effective feedback is something that every good manager should offer to employees.

Good feedback drives individual and company-wide performance. It motivates

employees and, in turn, fosters company-wide productivity. To some, offering

feedback is daunting, and to others, knowing how to offer valuable feedback is

somewhat of an “unknown.” It is important to consider that feedback is not praise,

it is not criticism, and it is not advice. Good feedback is about offering constructive

information in response to efforts toward reaching a particular goal.

 

Consider the following key elements to improve your feedback and the overall

success of your team:

 

Effective feedback is goal-oriented.

Feedback should be catered toward moving employees closer to their own

performance goals, or toward the betterment of the company. If your response to

employee performance does not have to do with these objectives, it is likely

unnecessary and will actually result in counter-productivity and frustration.

 

Effective feedback is specific.

Clear communication should take place when offering feedback. When offering

information about employee performance, managers should relay specific examples

to demonstrate why efforts were effective, or illustrations of where goals were not

as successfully reached. Furthermore, it is important that the recipient of the

feedback relays a clear understanding of what is being communicated.

 

Effective feedback is empathetic.

It is important to view the perspective of employees when offering feedback.

Consider the last time you received feedback that mattered to you – information

that you took to heart and that encouraged better performance on your part.

Usually it came from someone who genuinely cared about you, who appreciated

where you came from and where you were headed.

 

Effective feedback is timely.

Don’t wait until the quarterly review to offer feedback. Immediate response to

employee performance will be more meaningful and applicable when the action

taken is fresh on the heart and mind of the employee.

 

Effective feedback is honest.

Feedback that is fake, forced, or not completely truthful is neither good for

employees, nor for the overall organization. In fact, it can actually create barriers

skepticism. As a manager, honesty can be hard at times, but trying to tell people

what you assume they want to hear can actually hurt their effectiveness; on the

other hand, providing constructive, truthful feedback in a gentle, empathetic

manner is proven to build employee engagement and productivity over time.

 

Effective feedback is consistent.

It is important to offer constant feedback, and to follow up on feedback given.

People want their efforts to be recognized. Acknowledging the work of employees is

guaranteed to increase engagement and motivation. Offering consistent feedback

helps people to know whether they are on the right track, and how they can better

contribute to an organization’s success.

 

Effective feedback leaves room for improvement.

It is important, as you offer feedback to employees, to get their input regarding how

you offer feedback. Asking employees how you can better respond to their

performance will increase trust and lines of communication overall, and it will help

you to improve your ability to offer better feedback to other employees, and your

own managers as well.

 

What is your greatest challenge with giving feedback? Share in the comments or contact

us at bridgebetween.com.

Celebrating Leadership through Women’s History Month

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Women’s History Month celebrates the contribution of women to culture and society, and has been observed in the United States annually throughout the month of March since 1987.

From fighting for the right to vote, to being appointed as a United States Supreme Court judge, to pitching a winning game in the Little League World Series, our country has a strong foundation of women who persevere. Women who show up over and over again to fight for their sisters and make a difference for our gender with great resolve.

Women of the Past

Eleanor Roosevelt is a favorite from days gone by. Despite her less than picture perfect past, she stayed true to her passion for social justice. Mrs. Roosevelt utilized her position as the longest-serving First Lady of our country to fight for women’s causes near and dear to her heart. Eleanor used her newspaper column “My Day” to address key events and controversial topics. She was able to reach millions across America with her views on social and political issues, current and historical events, and her private and public life. [American Experience: Eleanor Roosevelt]

Enjoy a small selection of her meaningful quotes:

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” ― Eleanor RooseveltThis is My Story

“Do one thing every day that scares you.” ― Eleanor Roosevelt

“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” ― Eleanor RooseveltYou Learn by Living: Eleven Keys for a More Fulfilling Life

How has a first lady inspired you? Please share ‘who’ in the comments.

Earlier this year, the White House released an article filled with rich history of women who have made a difference in science.

Listen to women from across the Administration tell the stories of their personal heroes across the fields of science, technology, engineering, and math (STEM). What a fascinating message of tenacity and drive! From breaking sound barriers to breaking gender barriers and all sorts of barriers in between, how thrilling to honor their legacy by sharing their stories.

Women of the Present

There are several present day women who are making an impact on our lives. Think about those women in your circles – your mentors, your balcony people – what characteristics do you see portrayed over and over again?

One organization to follow is WOW! Work of Women, who is dedicated to making positive changes in women’s lives by empowering and mobilizing females around the world. This organization is committed to changing the world one woman at a time.

Susan Chambers tells us WOW! is a grassroots chain, and when we make a difference in the life of one woman there is a ripple effect. Be sure to follow their story – consider it time well spent learning about and supporting this fantastic program!

Samantha Ettus recently wrote a piece for Forbes that covered lots of motivating quotes from one hundred women. Each of these messages are powerful in their own right and together will cause quite a stir. I ask you to join me and read this list of Inspiring Quotes from 100 Extraordinary Women and think about which two stand out to you. I’ll share mine as well.

Usually one up for excitement, Tina Fey’s imagery struck a chord with me:

“You can’t be that kid standing at the top of the waterslide, overthinking it. You have to go down the chute.” – Tina Fey

Another quote which jumped off the page as I was reading:

“Hold your head and your standards high even as people or circumstances try to pull you down.” – Tory Johnson

Let’s use our innate grit and resolve to go out and do powerful things.

As women, we can have the loftiest of aspirations. A wish list, a someday dream, a desire to do contribute to a greater good. The proof in the pudding is the action. Do something. Get fired up about a situation. Fight for what you believe in and for what you believe to be true. Say it, think it, but do something. 

When you want to move forward in life, you’ve got to take that first step.

Picture yourself on a basketball court trying to make a shot. If you’re too far out and just shoot, the likelihood of you making it is slim. What happens when you move forward? You have a better shot at making it. Give yourself the utmost advantage and line up by taking that first step.

Women of the Future

As we’re looking at women of the past and present, let us not forget the women of our future. How are your words, actions, and impact playing out in a young girl’s life?

Are you showing her a steadfast resolve in making a difference in her community? Encouraging risks in her education and career? Cheering her on for creativity shown when participating in the school science fair? Infusing words of bravery and courage for performing in the elementary talent show? Sharing time with a teenager who is trying to figure out what she wants to be when she grows up? Mentoring a young woman starting out in the workforce?

Think back to your childhood, then adolescence, then young adulthood. Who inspired you and how can you pass that on? Looking back with the gift of experience that comes from time and age, what role models would you have wished to have? Be that for the younger generation. Impact the future by giving of yourself in the present with sharing your knowledge of the past.

Let’s work together to support others young, old, and in between to continue changing the future like a girl.

What woman do you know who’s really dedicating her life to helping others? 

I’d love to hear in the comments. Know what would be even better? Tell her. Send her a note of thanks and appreciation for the mark she’s made in your life and how she’s impacted you.

Celebrating Courageous Leaders

As we emphasize the history and achievements of African Americans during this month, let us learn from the following individuals who stand out for their amazing impact with boldness and bravery.

Leaders can have lots of titles and roles.

From the head of a company to the head of the PTA, from the most seasoned executive to the title-less one who embodies the pathfinder qualities despite the words printed on their business card.

A favorite quote from Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.:

“I came to the conclusion that there is an existential moment in your life when you must decide to speak for yourself; nobody else can speak for you.”

The following men and women decided to speak for themselves. They chose to show deep courage despite their hardships. I find inspiration in each one of them for various reasons.

All of them have one thing in common: hope. Hope in how they were living. Hope that what they were doing would make a difference for themselves. Hope that why they faced these circumstances would be used for good in affecting others.

Join me on a journey through the highlight reel of four remarkable individuals.

Maya Angelou

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  • Authentic
  • Encouraging
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She fought for justice, education, and equality. Although known best for her novel “I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings”, she leaves behind amazing artistic work while challenging us to be the good so we bring out the good in others.

 

 

She speaks of bringing everyone who has ever been kind to her when she goes on stage. She never felt alone. She challenges us to be a rainbow in somebody else’s cloud. Despite all of our differences, she charges us with being a blessing to somebody no matter if that person is like us or different.

Stuart Scott

  • Style
  • Attitude
  • Likeability

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Stuart Scott left an indelible mark on the sportscasting industry far greater than his coined phrase “Boo-yah!”.  His unique way of blending hip hop in his broadcasting allowed him to stand out as one who embraced who he was and didn’t change for others.

His approachability was highly regarded. He fought for who he was and won. He was endearing, smart, and loveable.

“ESPN and everyone in the sports world have lost a true friend and a uniquely inspirational figure in Stuart Scott,” said ESPN president John Skipper.

Watch this speech given 6 months ago, and be moved.

Stuart Scott, you are missed. Grateful for the impact you’ve made.

Nelson Mandela

  • Revolutionary
  • Humanitarian
  • Rebel

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Bold yet complex words describe him. He was passionate about his convictions and went great lengths for his beliefs. After enduring years in prison he tirelessly worked to negotiate a peaceful end to institutionalized racism, earning him a 1993 Nobel Peace Prize. Mandela was his nation’s first black president from 1994 to 1999.

He encourages us to live by rising every time we fall. Falling will happen. Get back up. Every time. Will you accept the challenge?

Wilma Rudolph

  • Pioneer
  • Athlete
  • Courageous
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Wilma was struck with polio at a young age. “My doctor told me I would never walk again,” she wrote. “My mother told me I would. I believed my mother.” Five years after removing her leg brace, she became an Olympian at age 16.  Four years passed. After returning home from her second Olympics (and three gold medals later), she insisted her homecoming parade and gala banquet be integrated. These were the first fully integrated municipal events in the city’s history. 

“Never underestimate the power of dreams and the influence of the human spirit. We are all the same in this notion: The potential for greatness lives within each of us.” – Wilma Rudolph

As we celebrate these remarkable leaders who have no doubt made an impact for all, will you accept this challenge?

Go out of your way to make more positive human interaction happen.

3 Tips on Letting Your Inner Leader Emerge

Do you dream of being a leader?  If you’ve never held a leadership role in your life, you might have come to believe that you’re a follower or, at best, a good team member.  However, everyone has depths they’re not aware of and can contribute to their teams and the people around them.  You have what it takes to be a leader if only you put your mind to it. Consider the following tips:D.I.S.C. personality assissment

  1. What’s Your Style in Dealing with People?  One of the most important aspects of leadership is working with others.  You have to convince people that your suggestions are good.  You have to get them to be enthusiastic about your ideas so that they put in the work required to execute the plan. When it comes to people, everyone has a different style.  Some like to talk to others one-on-one while others like to speak in a group.  Although you will feel most comfortable working in a style that best suits you, the most successful leaders learn about different personality types and how best to motivate and communicate with them. One assessment we use with clients to determine personality tendencies is the D.I.S.C. method. Understanding the four basic temperaments is key to working well with others. Although everyone has their strong suits, an effective leader benefits not only from bending their personality traits in communicating with others, but are better equipped to manage and motivate others when appealing to their hot points.
  2. Do Certain Ideas Keep Occurring to You Over and Over?  If you’re sitting in company meetings every week and you keep having the same thought about improving the product or increasing productivity, don’t ignore that thought. Run your idea by a colleague. Schedule time with your supervisor to bring it up or discuss in a meeting. If something keeps occurring to you, consider that a sign of your inner leader trying to speak up. Go with it.
  3. Take Time Off.  If you think back to how many famous innovators and creators have worked, you’ll find that they worked hard for long periods of time but they also took time off when necessary. Have you heard of Archimedes? He tirelessly worked on coming up with what’s now known as the Archimedes’ Principle.  He wasn’t able to solve it.  He took some time off and went to a public bath.  He was lounging in a hot tub when the solution came to him and he ran out, half naked, shouting “Eureka!” (I found it!).  Take time off yourself. You’ll find great ideas bubbling in your consciousness, which undoubtedly helps to refine your leadership abilities.

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Contact us for more information on letting your inner leader emerge.